to be fall / to be built ? #

Some friend of mine say that the most beautiful Love is the Love that you fall in..

And some friend of mine say that the most strongest Love is the Love that you build..

Fall in Love means you caught in Love with him/her (and he/she also)...

Build your Love means you build your Love feeling after you have the relationship..

There are so many examples nowadays that show us this 2 Love type (the other will be uncounted in this topic..) or maybe yourself...
What is the ROMANCE different between these two type??
Which one did suit you or your prefer??

The Beautiful Love or,

The Strongest Love....